The four main forms of child abuse: Physical, sexual, psychological and neglect. Which boy is the abused child? Daniel and David were my brothers and although the visual signs in this photo are different, the answer is both. David the younger one smiled way too much even in circumstances that didn’t warrant a smile. It was a fake, stuck on, self reassuring smile that said: I’m okay, I’m hanging on, everything is going to be okay. Daniel’s face reflects his pain and suffering yet, there is a look of defiance in his eyes. They were subjected to all forms of child abuse by our father, he is on the right.
After an abusive childhood, a child can lessen the chance of these side effects by realizing THEY are now in power!
My brothers and I lived with the man who fathered us but was not a father to us. Eventually, all four of us were abandoned on the street. I was 16, Gary 14, Daniel 12, and David was 10 years-old.
Source; U.S. Department of Health and Census, Nat Principals Ass. Report, CDC, Justice and Behavior America’s Disturbing Statistics:
Source; U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics and the New York Times, the Pew Center.
Mentor a child
Our mentor Louise Hagan, Gary and I
Lynda Long is not a psychologist and does not claim to be an authority on child abuse. She is not dispensing advice. Her intent is to make a contribution in raising awareness of the life long effects of child abuse from her personal experiences.